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September 21 photosIt is awesome to be home, and onto our next phase......adjustment here at home for everyone.
Caleb and Madelynne are doing well, and Christian and Mary-Ashlynne seem to be doing good also. There are changes for everyone, but so far the process is going well, with only a few hiccups here and there.
Here are some photos of our last few days in Kyiv and our wonderful welcome at the airport.
Click on the photos to enlarge....... September 15 The Kids & Leslie Have Hit American Soil!Leslie and the kids landed on American soil today (Sat) as their flight arrived in Detroit.
They fly into Mississippi tomorrow (Sunday).
We have a welcoming party of family & friends set to greet them when they arrive.
She said that all went fairly well with Ukraine & US customs.
The kids have been doing well given the circumstances & adjustments required of them & their new environment. As with most older orphans, it seems that hygeine customs will be a fairly big adjustment for them.
PLEASE PRAY for safe travelling tomorrow back home to Mississippi.
Mr. Mom has been doing dishes, washing & folding clothes, vacuuming, & cooking in addition to working & doing the manly chores.
Needless to say, we miss her in many ways. It is the presence of my dearly beloved that I miss most, but when she's gone, the home just doesn't function as smoothly either. I think that I have done well, but............ It isn't the same.
PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL 4 CHILDREN AS TOMORROW MARKS THE GENESIS OF A NEW AGE IN THE GORDON HOME. September 14 Looks like they are ready to come home!Yesterday, Leslie & the kids had their appointment with the embassy and all went well. Afterwards, they went to the zoo!
That was probably their 1st time ever for something like that.
Today, they went back to the embassy for final clearance & again all went well. Today, they went roller-skating and hope to go to the circus tonight.
We are very grateful to the local church there that has supplied us with a translator. Her name is Katiya and she has been very helpful and gracious in helping Leslie & the kids transition. She is from the PCA mission church on Shevchenko Blvd. The pastor there is Ivan Bespalov and the church there is named the Holy Trinity Presbyterian Church which is in downtown Kiev. They have an English translator available and I would highly recommend them.
PLEASE PRAY FOR LESLIE & THE KIDS. PRAY FOR SAFE TRAVELING AND THAT A MOTHER-CHILD BOND WILL BEGIN TO DEVELOP. (She says its getting better everyday.)
Please pray for other families that are adopting in Ukraine and that the Lord will guide them and that they will follow his Hand of Providence.
Please pray for Christian & Mary-Ashlynne as they are about to have their world drastically changed too.
Please pray for patience, grace, & mercy for us as we now enter the hard part of parenting.
OUR GOD IS SO GOOD! AMEN! GLORY BE TO HIM IN THE HIGHEST!
September 12 Making Progress!So far, the progress at the US Embassy in Kyiv appears to be progressing well. Today, the children had to go through medical evaluations and one needed a shot. Other paperwork & fees needed to also be done.
We are excited about their arrival. MA is constantly talking about them and what all they are going to do when they arrive.
Christian has been pretty much emotionless. I think that he doesn't know what to expect.
We have placed their pictures in frames throughout the house & in their rooms. I couldn't resist buying them a few gifts although I am very cautious about sending the wrong message regarding material possessions.
Lord willing, we are hoping that they arrive home safely this weekend.
HIS GRACE IS SUFFICIENT FOR US!
IF GOD BE FOR US, WHO CAN BE AGAINST US? ROMANS 8:31 September 11 LESLIE HAS THE KIDS!!!Today, Leslie picked up the kids at their orphanage in Vinnitsa & Nemyriv. Both orphanages gave her a small photo album with pictures of the kids.
Caleb Sergei cried when he left his orphanage and so did his caretaker. It shows his love for those that are special to him and also it showed that he was well cared for in his orphanage.
Madelynne Juliya's caretaker also cried when she left. Leslie said that she was excited at first, but is starting to become sad missing her friends & caretakers at the orphanage.
All these feelings are understandable and shows the emotional bond that these children have developed with those in their life.
WE PRAY THAT THEY WILL BE WILLING TO DEVELOP THE SAME BONDS WITH US, THEIR NEW PARENTS.
ALSO, PLEASE PRAY THAT GOD'S HAND WILL DIRECT & CORRECT A PAPERWORK ISSUE THAT WE HAVE REGARDING THEIR NAME SPELLING. IT APPEARS THAT THE NAMES WERE MIS-SPELLED ON ONE DOCUMENT.
PLEASE PRAY THAT THIS WON'T BE A MAJOR PROBLEM & CAN BE FIXED QUICKLY.
PRAY THAT GOD'S COMFORT WITH BE GIVEN THESE CHILDREN AS THEY EMBARK ON A NEW LIFE & TRY TO ADAPT TO A NEW & DIFFERENT CULTURE.
September 10 Back in KyivYesterday, we sent Leslie off to get the rest of our family, Sergei & Juliya.
That was so hard! She was crying! MA was crying! As a husband & father, I was torn between where my heart wanted to be and pragmatically where I needed to be for my family.
On the way back home from the airport, MA asked me who was going to take care of us three. I said that I was. She replied, "But you're not a mom. We need a Mom to take care of us until our mommy comes back."
Leslie arrived safely in Kyiv today. I don't think that they will get much accomplished today in regards to getting the kids.
Hopefully, she will get them both tomorrow without any complications and return to Kyiv for Embassy clearance.
PRAY FOR GOD'S COMFORT ON THEM & HIS TRAVELING GRACE & MERCY!
PRAY THAT HE WILL GIVE ME THE PATIENCE THAT I NEED PLAYING THE ROLE OF THE SINGLE PARENT. September 07 guess what????I (Leslie) will be headed out this weekend to Ukraine., staying there the week to pick up the children and do US Embassy paperwork. I'll return next weekend with our new children! It kind of seems surreal right now, since we have been waiting such a long time.
Mary-Ashlynne has been full of questions these past few weeks:
"when did you go to Ukraine to get me?"
"why can't I be from Ukraine too? I want to be from Ukraine"
"are the childrens papers ready? where are MY papers?"
"when do they have to go back to Ukraine? I will miss them" (our host child had to return last summer, and she is confused about this)
We are very greatful that Caleb and Madelynne's orphanage directors ahve been gracious enough to let them both stay there while we have been waiting for passports. I have heard from other AP's that their children's orphanage directors were not happy keeping their children. Even though we would have rather had them come home with us on my first trip, it has been comforting to know that they are being well taken care of in our absence.
Please pray for Spencer, Christian and Mary-Ashlynne this next week. Mary-Ashlynne is a mama's girl, and is already voicing her opinion about me leaving again. Spencer will be juggling working and taking care of them. He did tell me though that the kitchenwill be clean when I get back.
Please pray that I have a smooth,uneventful travel to and time in Ukraine.
Please pray for Caleb and Madelynne as they leave behind all they know. We feel they are excited about coming to America and having a new family, but all this will be overwhelming. I have a hard time even imagining all they must be going through..and will over the next few weeks. So many many changes in store for them.
Thank you!
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